More than 10 years of togetherness later, I am Cheating my Husband

We are a love cum arranged couple. I have known P since June 30, 2007. That was our first day of Management School and our first formal introduction or say first ever introduction which was formal (literally in formal business suits). He was a serious looking normal guy and I was a fun loving cheerful girl who never gave guys a second look. Love was never on mind, neither mine nor his..

Our journey began, and we became acquaintance. Coincidentally during each passing trimester, we were a part of almost of study groups. And we didn’t realize when our fondness grew enough to call it love. Yes, love it was, most of our friends knew whats cooking, before we could realize it ourselves.

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After a courtship of four and a half years, we finally tied the knot. And its more than 10 years, I had been in love with this man- every day, every minute and every second of my life.

But not anymore, now I always think- Is he still my priority?
I don’t wait every evening for him now or rather miss him throughout the day. Our phone calls also wrap up in 1-2 minutes which used to be hours prior to marriage and atleast 10-15 minutes post marriage.

So, what happened? Why I don’t love him like I did couple of years back?

Is he doing something or rather not doing anything?

No, its all about me, my priorities have changed and more over I have found new love.

A new man is there in my life, and I love him to the core. There isn’t any day or moment he isn’t there on my mind. He is my priority now. With each day my fondness for him is growing and is far more than P.

Why?

Unlike P, he is demanding and needs my attention everyday, every minute. We love to talk, walk, play and most important have fun. He loves to kiss and cuddle whatever time we are together. He loves me too and doesn’t care what I am wearing or how I look. His love for me isn’t affected if I don’t dress up for him, comb my hair or apply makeup. But never miss to hug and kiss me when I do 😉😉.

We aren’t very extra ordinary couple, it’s just that we love each other’s company and can’t stay away for long. He brings out the child in me and we laugh out hearts out on each and all silly thing we do together.

He is always there with me when P is late from work and we always have a plan together. Our cozy dinner date nights, listening to music, clicking selfies- everything is so much fun and exciting just like any Bollywood movie.

No I am not dreaming, HE IS FOR REAL.

A man with golden heart and soul.

I just pray that HE keep loving me like this and WE remain in Love forever.

After all, my love for him is so pure and conditional.

He is a part of me, my heart, my soul, my son.

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Happy Month of Love!!


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Gunjan

18 Comments

  • Aparna

    July 4, 2018 at 3:19 PM Reply

    In love with this story seriously some relation so priceless

    • Tuggun N Mommy

      July 4, 2018 at 11:04 PM Reply

      Thank you Aparna
      So glad you like it. Stay connected

  • Gurima

    March 10, 2018 at 12:07 PM Reply

    Hahaha.. such a great and fun read

  • Mummasaurus

    March 9, 2018 at 6:19 PM Reply

    hahahah with a cheating like that, i am damn sure he does not mind… in fact he is probably cheating on you too – by loving your son so much!!!

  • Ms Tantrum Blog

    March 9, 2018 at 9:33 AM Reply

    I totally get you babe! As a mum of a little boy, I understand that our love for kids comes before our love for our partner. Such a beautifully written post!

  • Jhilmil

    March 9, 2018 at 6:59 AM Reply

    How beautiful this tory is, relations are beautiful and if handled well, they bring energy in your lives. Also, this cheating is allowed, lol.

  • drbushran

    March 9, 2018 at 6:07 AM Reply

    That’s beautiful love story, indeed with time our priority changes but Love won’t.

  • Papri Ganguly

    March 9, 2018 at 4:21 AM Reply

    Heartfelt words. Just love the way you portrait both men in your life.

  • Mrinal Kiran

    March 9, 2018 at 3:20 AM Reply

    This was so beautifully written! A story of every couple married for a few years! ❤❤❤

  • momming_little_du

    February 26, 2018 at 5:36 AM Reply

    After kids, our priorities definitely change. And we are loved by the minions for purely who we are ☺. Very sweetly written.

  • Runawaysparkler

    February 25, 2018 at 3:09 PM Reply

    awww thats so cute …he is so adorable m sure ur husband would love this cheating.

  • Pradeep

    February 24, 2018 at 8:47 PM Reply

    Hahaha.. Interesting read

  • tuggu.n.mommy

    February 23, 2018 at 8:53 AM Reply

    Haha… ours are even shorter than this..
    He: “All okk..”
    Me: yea
    He: ok bye

  • tuggu.n.mommy

    February 23, 2018 at 8:52 AM Reply

    Haha.. I feel I am the #man here, cheating on my love of life for another piece of my heart. ❤

  • mamamusings_

    February 22, 2018 at 6:19 PM Reply

    Hahahha your heading took me aback for a while. But then it super cute and such a live filled write up.

  • tuggu.n.mommy

    February 22, 2018 at 5:21 AM Reply

    Thanks Anchal

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